It took me a long time to realize that each person is responsible for their life. It took me years to discover that my anguish, anxiety, my depression, my courage and my stress, does not solve your problems.

I am not responsible for the actions of anyone and its not my job to provide happiness, but I am responsible for the reactions I express to that.

Therefore, I concluded that my duty to myself is to remain calm and let each one of you solve what corresponds to you.

Therefore, it is my conclusion, I can only control myself. With that being said, I realize that the creator gave us the ability to make choices in our lives but not the ability to choose wisely, that seems to be up to us. I can only control myself. You have all the necessary resources to solve your own problems despite how hard they may be. My job is to pray for you, love you and encourage YOU but it’s up to YOU to solve them and find your happiness.

I can only give you my advice if you ask me and it depends on you to follow it or not. There are consequences, good or bad, to your choice, your decisions and you must live with them.

You don’t need to drink to fish.

You don’t need to drink to drive.

You don’t need to drink to relax.

Blaine Stensgaard, Kitsumkalum NNADAP

E: nnadap(at)kitsumkalum(d0t)com | T: 250-635-6172 ext. 105